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Fields of Mistria Gender Options and Romance Rules

Direct answer

The official FAQ says Fields of Mistria lets players choose pronouns including they and them. It also says marriage candidates are not locked by gender, so the player can marry any eligible villager regardless of gender. The collected evidence does not preserve a complete pronoun list, body or appearance menu, separate gender selector, or every character-creation option. [S1]

Last verified 2026-08-16Evidence status: Ready

At a glance

Quick Facts

Quick facts for Fields of Mistria Gender Options and Romance Rules
Confirmed pronouns	The official FAQ includes they and them
Romance rule	Eligible marriage candidates are not locked by the player's gender
Candidate scope	Only villagers marked eligible belong to the marriage system
Not captured	Complete pronoun list, body or appearance menu, separate gender selector, and later-edit rules
Source priority	Official FAQ over secondary Steam discussion

Do this first

Fastest path

Select the available pronouns that fit the intended player character.
Choose any villager the current game marks as an eligible marriage candidate.
Build the relationship and meet that candidate's own event requirements.
Check the live character-creation interface for options not preserved in the collected FAQ capture.

Detailed guide

Selectable pronouns

The official FAQ explicitly confirms that pronouns are selectable and includes they and them as an available option. That first-party statement is the strongest evidence in the collected material. The extraction does not preserve every other pronoun choice or the exact interface wording. [S1]

A page can confidently answer that gender-neutral pronouns are supported without inventing a complete menu. It should not add pronoun sets from memory, community screenshots, or another farming game. Every unlisted option remains Pending verification (待确认). [S1][S2]

Marriage candidates are not gender-locked

The FAQ says eligible marriage candidates are not restricted by the player's gender. The player can choose any eligible villager regardless of gender under that official answer. This is a romance-eligibility rule, not a claim that every villager in town is marriageable. [S1]

Candidate status still matters because only eligible villagers belong to the marriage system. Relationship progression, heart events, proposals, and weddings have their own requirements outside this pack. Gender independence removes one restriction but does not remove all gameplay prerequisites. [S1]

Pronouns and romance are separate choices

The two confirmed facts answer different parts of the search intent. Pronoun selection controls how the player is addressed, while gender-independent romance controls which eligible candidates can be pursued. The source does not say one choice limits or automatically changes the other. [S1]

Do not infer a hidden gender lock from a candidate's own identity or presentation. The official FAQ's rule is broad across eligible candidates. If a particular route fails to trigger, verify relationship and story requirements before blaming the selected pronouns. [S1]

What the source does not show

The capture does not include the full character-creation screen, body presets, hairstyles, clothing, colors, voice options, name limits, or a separate gender field. It also does not show whether every choice can be changed later. Those details cannot be reconstructed from two short FAQ answers. [S1][S2]

A general claim that the character creator is fully unrestricted would therefore be too broad. The evidence supports pronoun choice and gender-independent marriage only. Appearance customization needs a separate current source before receiving a complete guide. [S1][S2]

Why the Steam discussion is secondary

The captured Steam discussion adds community context but no stronger independent mechanic. Forum participants can ask, interpret, or debate options without replacing the official FAQ. This article does not promote a comment over the first-party answer. [S2]

Community posts can still reveal terminology that players search for, but their claims require verification. In this pack, the FAQ already answers both supported questions directly. Unrelated discussion filler and localization text were removed rather than used to lengthen the factual scope. [S1][S2]

How to choose a route

Select the available pronouns that fit the intended player character, then pursue any villager the game marks as an eligible marriage candidate. Build the relationship and meet that candidate's current event requirements normally. Do not expect pronoun selection to block the route under the official rule. [S1]

If the desired pronoun or appearance option is not visible, consult the current interface or official FAQ rather than assuming the extracted list is complete. The pack confirms they and them but not every label. A later interface update may add or rename choices. [S1]

Language and identity limits

The FAQ extraction also contains localization information, but localization coverage does not establish which pronoun forms are available in every language. Grammar and translation can affect how a selected option appears. The supplied source does not provide a language-by-language pronoun matrix. [S1]

Do not claim identical wording or full grammatical coverage across all beta localizations without evidence. The confirmed game-level option is broader than any one translated string, while the exact presentation remains Pending verification (待确认) by language. This article keeps localization separate from core eligibility. [S1]

Source-safe answer summary

Fields of Mistria supports selectable pronouns including they and them and does not lock eligible marriage candidates by gender. Those two facts come directly from the official FAQ. They are enough to answer the main identity and romance questions. [S1]

The full pronoun roster and character-creation menu are not present in the collected evidence. No body type, appearance feature, later-edit option, or extra pronoun set is invented to make the list look complete. Players should verify those interface details in the current game. [S1][S2]

Conditions and exceptions

Version, conditions & exceptions

The official FAQ confirms the two core rules, but the full creation menu and language-by-language presentation are not captured.

Last verified 2026-08-16. The collected evidence is ready for this page's stated scope.

Evidence trail

Sources & last verified

This page is limited to the collected sources below. Source conflicts, missing image data, and version-sensitive details remain labeled instead of being filled with guesses.

[S1] Fields of Mistria FAQ
[S2] Fields of Mistria Steam Discussion

Last verified: 2026-08-16

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